"Chilankhulo chachikondi cha Itay (Abambo) ndi mphatso."
Nthaŵi zonse ine ndi mkulu wanga tikamakambirana za Mawu a Chikondi cha Amayi m’banja mwathu, tinali otsimikiza kuti chinenero chachikondi cha Atate wathu n’chopatsa mphatso. Nthawi zonse ankatipatsa zinthu zambiri, ngakhale pamene palibe chochitika chapadera.
Chifukwa cha zimenezi, ine ndi mchemwali wanga tinaganiza kuti nayenso adzakhudzidwa kwambiri tikamam’patsa mphatso (Mawu a Chikondi cha Amayi). Ndicho chifukwa chake nthawi zonse zinkandivuta kusankha mphatso yoyenera kwa Atate nthawi iliyonse pamene tsiku lawo lobadwa likuyandikira kwambiri. Ndinaganiza, "ndi chinenero chake chachikondi! Ndiyenera kusankha mosamala."
Koma ndinadabwa, m’nthaŵi ya chakudya chamadzulo chabanja lina, ine ndi mlongo wanga titafotokozera makolo athu momasuka za Mawu a Chikondi cha Amayi, Bambo ananena mwachisawawa kuti amayamikira kwambiri mawu otsimikizira.
Ndinadabwa kwambiri. Ndinazindikira kuti sindimawadziwa kwenikweni bambo anga monga momwe ndimanenera. Mawu achitsimikizo akadakhala kulingalira kwanga komaliza ndikafika pachilankhulo chachikondi cha Abambo anga.
Kudabwa kwanga kutachepa, ndinayamba kudziimba mlandu pang’ono. Ndinazindikira kuti nthawi zambiri sindimauza bambo anga zinthu zimene amachitira banja lathu.
Tikayang’anana, ine ndi mlongo wanga tinazindikira kuti mphatso imene Atate wathu amafunadi kulandira ndi yosavuta komanso yotsika mtengo: mawu enieni achilimbikitso ndi othokoza ochokera kwa ana awo aakazi.
"Zoona bambo? Zikatero, tikufuna kuti mudziwe kuti timakuyamikirani kwambiri chifukwa cha zinthu zonse zomwe mumachitira banjali."
"Ntchito yanu ndi yovuta. Muyenera kuti munapirira kwambiri."
"Ngati titapeza mwayi wokonzanso moyo uno, tingasankhe kuti mukhale bambo athu mobwerezabwereza."
"Ndiwe katswiri kwambiri!"
Ngakhale nditanena mawu achipongwe koma oona, ine ndi mlongo wanga tinaona bambo athu akuyang'anitsitsa ngati akugwetsa misozi. Nthawi yomweyo, maso a abambo athu, omwe amakhala ngati nyanja yamchete, yomwe imagwira mozama komanso mwabata, adayamba kunyezimira ngati miyala yamtengo wapatali. Maso ake anali ngati nyanja ya masana yomwe inkanyezimira chifukwa cha mawu ofunda a ana ake aakazi.
Monga ngati anangolandira mphatso yabwino koposa, Atate anamwetulira, kuseka, ndi mwanthabwala anafunsa, "Zoona? Simungafune Elon Musk kukhala atate wanu?"
Chakudya chamadzulo cha banja lathu chinadzaza ndi chikondi ndi kuseka. Mayi athunso ankaoneka osangalala kwambiri.
Ine ndi mlongo wanga tinalakwitsa. Chilankhulo chachikondi cha Itay ndi mawu otsimikizira.
Chifukwa cha ziphunzitso za Amayi, tsopano tikudziwa momwe tingakhalire ana aakazi apachibale kwa abambo athu - kuphunzira kulankhula chinenero chawo chachikondi choyamba.