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Mwamuna wanga ndi wofatsa pang'ono ndipo ali ndi maganizo omveka bwino, kotero ngakhale pamene ndinali kupita kutchalitchi, nthawi zambiri ndinkakhumudwa kapena kukhumudwa ndi liwu limodzi limene ananena. Ndinalinso ndi nkhawa kwambiri pamene ndinkakuonani mukuyesera kuthana ndi chilichonse nokha popanda kuwonetsa banja lanu, ngakhale mukukumana ndi mavuto akuthupi ndi amisala chifukwa cha mavuto osiyanasiyana. Pakadali pano, pamene tinkachita 'Chilankhulo cha Amayi cha Chikondi Chofuna Mtendere' kutchalitchi, pang'onopang'ono zinthu zinayamba kusintha. Zinakhala zachilendo kupereka mawu oyamikira ndi olimbikitsana kwa wina ndi mnzake komanso kufotokoza zakukhosi kwathu mwachikondi. Kuyamikira ndi kulimbikitsana, komwe sikunali kophweka kumva m'moyo watsiku ndi tsiku, kunaoneka ngati gwero lalikulu la mphamvu kwa mwamuna wanga. Pambuyo pake, pamene mwamuna wanga anakumbukira zonse zomwe zinachitika, anazindikira kuti sanali wodziwa bwino kufotokoza maganizo ake, ndipo anali kulandira chisamaliro ndi chikondi chochuluka kuchokera kwa anthu omuzungulira kuposa momwe ankaganizira. Ndipo pofuna kupereka chikondi chimene analandira kwa ena, anaika 'Chilankhulo cha Amayi cha Chikondi' kuntchito konse ndipo anayamba kuchigwiritsa ntchito. Amayesetsa kupereka mawu oyamikira ndi olimbikitsa kaye, ndi kulankhula akuganizira momwe munthu winayo akumvera. Ndinaona kusintha komwe kunabwera chifukwa cha mawu ofunda kuyambira kutchalitchi, zomwe zinakhudza mtima wa mwamuna wanga, kenako zinafika kuntchito kwake ndi kwa anthu omwe anali pafupi naye. Chilankhulo cha chikondi cha amayi chikuwoneka ngati njira yolankhulirana yofunda yomwe imatumiza mtendere kuchokera mumtima mwa wolankhula kupita kumtima wa womvera.

Mamembala a ASEZ ndi ASEZ STAR adagawana kampeni ya “Chiyambi cha Mtendere: Mawu a Chikondi cha Amayi” kusukulu. Ophunzira ndi aphunzitsi adakondwera kwambiri kulandira kampeniyi. Ophunzira ndi aphunzitsi anayamikira mamembalawo, ndipo sukuluyo inawapatsanso satifiketi yoyamikira. Aphunzitsi anasonyeza chidwi chachikulu ndi kampeniyi ndipo anatiitana ku chochitika chawo chapachaka choyambitsa kampeni ya “Chiyambi cha Mtendere: Mawu a Chikondi cha Amayi”.

Ndimakhala kutali ndi banja langa kotero ndimawaona kamodzi kokha pachaka. Komanso, ndikakhala kuntchito ndi zochitika zina, ndimakhala wotanganidwa kwambiri moti ndimavutika kuyimbira makolo anga ndi abale anga pafupipafupi kuti ndiwadziwitse. Mwamwayi chilimwe chino anabwera kudzandiona ndipo tinakhala masiku angapo limodzi. Ndinkafuna kuwapatsa mphatso yolimbikitsa kuti ndiwadziwitse kuti ngakhale sindimawaimbira foni nthawi zonse, nthawi zonse ndimawaganizira ndipo ndimapemphera kuti akhale bwino. Choncho ndinalemba kalata yokhala ndi zithunzi zathu limodzi ndi chokoleti yokutidwa ndi mawu akuti Chiyambi cha Mtendere: Mawu a Chikondi cha Amayi. Onse anadabwa ndi mphatsoyo ndipo anati sanayembekezere konse. Nditawauza kuti ndikumva chisoni kuti sindingathe kulankhulana nthawi zonse, aliyense anati ali chimodzimodzi chifukwa tonse tinali otanganidwa ndipo tinkamvetsetsana. Ndinamva bwino chifukwa cha kumvetsetsa kwawo, ndipo ndinamvanso kuti mphatsoyi inatigwirizanitsa kwambiri. Ndimayesetsa kulankhulana nawo pafupipafupi ndikugawana nawo mawu abwino kuti ndipitirize kugwiritsa ntchito Chiyambi cha Mtendere: Mawu a Chikondi cha Amayi .

Usiku watha, amayi anga anali ndi pakhosi lopweteka mpaka 3:30 koloko m'mawa. Koma ginger linatha, choncho ndinapita kumunda wa ginger kukakumba. Mwamwayi, ndinali ndi khasu kumeneko. Ndinawapangira galasi la ginger ndi chakumwa cha uchi chopangidwa ndi ginger wathu wakumudzi. Ayenera kuti anamva kutentha kwambiri mkati mwake. Atamwa, anagona tulo tatikulu. Ndinamva kusangalala kwambiri. Ndatsimikiza mtima kuti tsiku lililonse lidzakhala nkhani yokhudza chilankhulo cha Amayi. Mwanjira imeneyi, ndidzabzala mbewu 30 pamwezi ndi mbewu 365 pachaka. Mwanjira imeneyi, munda wa mtima wanga udzakhala wolemera komanso wokongola chifukwa cha kuchita tsiku ndi tsiku chilankhulo cha Amayi. Kuganizira zimenezo kumadzaza mtima wanga ndi chisangalalo ndipo kumwetulira kwachimwemwe kumawonekera pankhope panga.

Miyezi iwiri yapitayo, amayi anga analankhula nane mozama, nati sakuona bwino ndipo akuona magetsi oyaka. Ine ndi amayi anga tinapita kwa dokotala wa maso ndi mtima wopepuka chifukwa nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi maso abwino ndipo savala magalasi owerengera ngakhale ali ndi zaka zoposa 80, koma dokotala anati amafunika opaleshoni yadzidzidzi. Ine ndi amayi anga tinadabwa kwambiri ndipo tinachita mantha kumva kuti retina yawo yang'ambika ndipo akhoza kukhala akhungu ngati titachedwa nthawi ina. Mulimonsemo, opaleshoni inali yofunika, choncho anachitidwa tsiku lotsatira. Opaleshoniyo inatenga pafupifupi maola awiri pansi pa mankhwala oletsa ululu, koma vutoli linayamba pambuyo pake. Kukhalabe pamalo osayenera kwa milungu iwiri pambuyo pa opaleshoniyo kunali vuto lalikulu kwa amayi anga. Unali malo ovuta kupirira ngakhale kwa wachinyamata, kotero anavutika kwambiri. Patatha milungu iwiri yovuta imeneyo, tinapita kuchipatala ndipo tinauzidwa kuti tikufunika opaleshoni kachiwiri chifukwa retina sinachiritsidwe. Titamva zimenezo, tinamva chisoni kwambiri komanso mantha, choncho tinangobwerera kunyumba. Pamene ndinauza banja langa ndi mamembala a mpingo nkhaniyi, aliyense anali ndi nkhawa kwambiri. M'bale wina anandichezera kangapo kuti andilimbikitse kuti ndichite opaleshoni ina ndipo anandilimbikitsa. Anandipatsa [zimenezo]. Kuonjezera apo, achibale ambiri ndi achibale anandithandiza kwambiri komanso kunditonthoza. Atalimbikitsidwa ndi thandizo la banja lake, Amayi anapemphera tsiku lomwe adachita opaleshoni yachiwiri ndipo analowa m'chipinda chochitira opaleshoni. Opaleshoniyo inatha bwino, ndipo patatha milungu iwiri akuchira, zotsatira za mayesowo zinali zabwino kwambiri. Ndinayamikira kwambiri chitonthozo ndi chikondi chomwe banja langa linandipatsa, ndipo chinali gwero lalikulu la mphamvu ndi chitonthozo. Ndikuyamikira kwambiri abambo ndi amayi anga chifukwa chopanga nthawi ino kukhala yodzaza ndi chikondi chachikulu pakati pa mapemphero ndi chithandizo cha banja langa. Chilankhulo cha chikondi cha amayi chimapereka mphamvu ndi kulimba mtima kwakukulu.

Zion 👩 mlongo wa kusukulu ya pulayimale Anandipatsa kalata ~^^💐💐 Mmene analembera bwino kwambiri ndi manja awo ang'onoang'ono Ndakhudzidwa kwambiri! Ndikuyamikira mlongo wathu chifukwa choyamikira zomwe waphunzira kudzera m'chilankhulo cha chikondi cha Amayi!👍 Mphamvu ya chilankhulo cha chikondi cha amayi chomwe chimalumikiza aliyense💪 Ndili nacho! Chilankhulo cha Amayi cha Chikondi 🫰🫰🫰🫰🫰❤️❤️

Usiku watha sindinathe kugona ndipo ndinagwedezeka usiku wonse. Pakhosi panga pankamveka kuyabwa, ngati kuti panali tsitsi laling'ono mkati, zomwe zinapangitsa kuti ndisamve bwino. Ndinagona pafupi ndi amayi anga ndipo ndinakhosomola pang'ono. Pakati pa usiku, ndimaganiza kuti agona tulo tofa nato ndipo sadzavutitsidwa kapena kudzutsidwa ndi chifuwa changa chochepa. Koma anandifunsa kuti, "Chavuta ndi chiyani, wokondedwa?" Ndinadabwa ndipo ndinamuuza kuti, "Pakhosi panga pankamveka kuyabwa." Ndinangoganiza kuti agonanso ndikugonanso. Koma moyo wanga unadabwa ndipo unakhudzidwa pamene amayi anga anandiuza kuti, "Kodi ukufuna kutsuka ndi madzi amchere? Ndiloleni ndikupangireni!" Mawu awo anandidzutsa ndipo anandikhudza mtima kwambiri! Ndinati, "Amayi, mwakumana ndi mavuto ambiri pakati pa usiku. Zikomo kwambiri!" Ndatsimikiza mtima kufalitsa chikondi ndi mtendere kwa aliyense wondizungulira mwa kuchita "Chilankhulo cha chikondi cha Amayi, chomwe chimayambitsa mtendere" mwachikondi, monga momwe chikondi cha Amayi chimachitira.

Ndikuyamikira kwambiri kutenga nawo mbali mu gulu lapadera komanso lamtengo wapatali la “Tsiku la Chikondi ndi Mtendere la Amayi” kwa masiku 32. Ndikayang'ana mmbuyo, ndikuonadi momwe ndasinthira kudzera mu izi. Poyamba, ndinkachita manyazi komanso sindinkamasuka kugwiritsa ntchito mawu akuti “Mawu a Chikondi cha Amayi Omwe Amabweretsa Mtendere,” monga “Muli bwanji?”, “Muli bwino?”, ndi “Kodi pali chilichonse chomwe ndingakuthandizeni nacho?” Sindinkagwiritsa ntchito mawu amenewa kawirikawiri ndipo sindinazolowere kufotokoza maganizo anga motere. Koma pang'onopang'ono, ndinaphunzira kugwiritsa ntchito mawuwa, ndipo pamapeto pake, ndinadzipeza ndikumawanena mwachibadwa komanso moona mtima. Kudzera mu izi, ndinazindikira momwe mawu osavuta osamalira awa angakhalire ofunikira. Amatithandiza kumva kuti tili pafupi wina ndi mnzake ndikumanga ubale wabwino. Ndikuyamikira kwambiri kuti ndakhala ndikuchita izi. Kudzera mu izi, ndaphunzira momwe ndingasamalire, kukonda, kutonthoza, komanso kusamalira ena moona mtima. Monga momwe ndalandirira chikondi chamtengo wapatali komanso chopanda malire kuchokera kwa Amayi, ndikuyembekeza kugawana chikondi chimenecho ndi omwe ali pafupi nane. Ngakhale kuti kayendetsedwe ka masiku 32 aka katha, ndipitiliza kusunga mawu awa mumtima mwanga ndikuwagwiritsa ntchito kuti miyoyo yathu ya tsiku ndi tsiku ikhale yodzaza ndi kutentha, chikondi, ndi mgwirizano. 🌸❤️✨