Ndemanga

Mlongo wanga wamkulu anali ngati mayi anga achiwiri. Ankandisamalira, kunditonthoza, kusewera nane komanso kundiseketsa nthawi zonse. Nthawi zonse ndinkafuna kukhala naye. Tinkagwirizana kwambiri, ndipo sindinkafuna kukhala kutali naye. Pamene ndinkakula, ndinayamba kudziyimira pawokha ndipo mwachibadwa ndinasiya. Ngakhale panthawi yanga yopanduka, iye analipo nthawi zonse kuti andithandize. Kenako ndinachoka kupita ku koleji ndipo sitinkalankhulana kwambiri. Pambuyo pake, ndinakwatira ndipo ndinasamuka ndikuyamba banja langa. Ndinkaganiza kuti ndi zomwe zimachitika munthu akamakula. Kenako amayi anga anamwalira. Mlongo wanga anabwereranso. Anatitonthoza tonse, ndipo anandisamalira ine ndi abale ndi alongo anga. Koma pamene anali kusamalira aliyense palibe amene analipo kuti amutonthoze. Zimenezo zinandipangitsa kumva chisoni kwambiri. Ndinkafuna kumulimbikitsa ndi kumutonthozanso, koma sindinkadziwa choti ndinene. Pamenepo ndinaganizira za Chiyambi cha Mtendere: Mawu a Chikondi cha Amayi. Mauthenga oyamikira, olimbikitsa ndi otonthoza anandipatsa mawu omwe sindikanatha kuwapeza ndekha. Pamene ndinayamba kugwiritsa ntchito mawu awa, ubale wathu unayamba kukonzedwa. Tinatha kuchira, kugwirizananso ndikukhalanso ogwirizana. Chifukwa cha mawu a Mothers Love, ubale wathu unabwezeretsedwa ndipo ndikuyamikira kwambiri zimenezo. Chiyembekezo changa ndi chakuti banja langa lipitiriza kugwiritsa ntchito mawu awa kuti nthawi zonse tikhale ndi chikondi ndi mtendere.

Mwezi watha, m'modzi mwa mamembala athu adatha kugawana chiyambi cha Mtendere: mawu a chikondi cha amayi ku yunivesite ya Fresno Pacific. Membala ameneyo akutenga maphunziro a chilimwe kuti apeze satifiketi yake yophunzitsa. Mamembala a Visalia Zion adaganiza kuti zingakhale bwino kugawana nawo ziphunzitso za amayi ndikuwapatsa mphatso zabwino komanso mawu olimbikitsa popeza onse pakadali pano kapena akufunsira ntchito kuti akhale aphunzitsi amtsogolo m'boma la Tulare. Tinaganiza za momwe munthu angadziwire bwino poika ena patsogolo ndikuwatsogolera kuti akhale munthu wodziwa bwino ntchito zamaphunziro, munthu wothandiza anthu ammudzi. Kotero tinawayamikira ndi chiyembekezo choti adzamva chikondi chenicheni.

Ku Portland, Oregon, tinasaina Chilengezo cha Mtendere cha Chiyambi: Mawu a Chikondi cha Amayi mu Januwale 2026! Mu 2026 tatsimikiza mtima kugawana Mawu a Chikondi cha Amayi ndi mabanja athu, abwenzi athu, ogwira nawo ntchito, odziwana nawo, ndi madera athu kuti tikhale chitsanzo chabwino chomwe chingathandize omwe ali pafupi nafe kuyambira ndi mawu athu! Monga Olimbikitsa Mtendere, timathandizira kampeni iyi ndipo tidzayesetsa kuichita nthawi zambiri kuti tilimbikitse mtendere mdera lathu ❤️

Kuti ndikondwerere Tsiku la Aphunzitsi ndikukhudza mtima wanu, ndakonza chochitika chaching'ono. Tinavala malaya ofanana okhala ndi mauthenga oyamikira ndipo tinakonzekera mosamala mauthenga kwa aphunzitsi athu okhala ndi chilankhulo chachikondi, monga "Zikomo" ndi "Ndikukuthokozani." Pomaliza, nditapemphedwa kuti ndikonzekeretse mphunzitsi maluwa a baluni, ndinayang'ana mosamala makanema a YouTube kuti ndiwapange ndipo ndinawakonza limodzi ndi limodzi. Monga mayi, ndinakhudzidwa kwambiri ndi kuona ana anga aakazi awiri akukonzekera chizindikiro chaching'ono chosonyeza kudzipereka kuti akondweretse wina ndikuwulula ulemerero wa Mulungu. Ndinkayembekezera kumva mtundu wa ndemanga zomwe mungandiuze mukabwerera kusukulu. Ndinasangalalanso kumva kuti ndinu nokha amene munakonza baluni ya maluwa, ndipo munali wotchuka kwambiri chifukwa anzanu onse anasonkhana mozungulira inu, akufuna kuigwira kamodzi kokha. Ndinali wonyada ndi mitima ya ana aakazi omwe adawonetsa chikondi cha amayi awo mwachikondi ndi ulemu kwa mphunzitsi amene adawaphunzitsa ndikuwatsogolera panjira yoyenera. Masukulu si malo ophunzirira chidziwitso okha, koma nthawi iliyonse ndikamva nkhani zokhudza kugwa kwa ulamuliro wa aphunzitsi pano ndi apo, ndimamva chisoni kwambiri komanso kusweka mtima ndi lingaliro lakuti, 'Ngati chilankhulo cha chikondi cha mayi, chomwe chimafuna mtendere, chingafalikirenso kumadera amenewo ...' Ndikukhulupirira kuti chilankhulo ichi cha chikondi cha mayi chidzafalikira ku sukulu iliyonse, ndikuchisandutsa munda wokongola wa maluwa wodzaza ndi chikondi ndi chimwemwe.

Amayi akhala m'chipatala masiku angapo apitawa, kotero panalibe woti aphikire abambo chakudya cham'mawa. Kotero, pamene amayi anga anali kuchipatala kwa masiku angapo, ine ndekha ndinakonza ndikugwira ntchito yokonzera chakudya cham'mawa cha abambo anga. Popeza nthawi ya 5:30, nthawi imene abambo anga amapita kuntchito, nthawi zambiri ndimakhala ndikugona, ndinali ndi nkhawa kwambiri ngati ndingathe kuchita zimenezo. Komabe, popeza ndinali ndi masiku ochepa okha, ndinaganiza zoyesa ndipo ndinayamba ntchitoyi. Ndipo tsiku loyamba lomwe ndinali ndikuyembekezera kwa nthawi yayitali silinali lophweka. Sindinathe kutsegula maso anga bwino, ndipo mapazi anga sanayende momwe ndimafunira. Komabe, poganizira za abambo anga, ndinawakonzera chakudya cham'mawa. Pamene ndinali kukonzekera chakudya cham'mawa, Abambo anamaliza kukonzekera kupita kuntchito ndipo anatuluka m'chipinda chochezera, ndipo anadabwa kwambiri atandiona. Ndinakuuzani dzulo kuti ndikukonzerani chakudya, koma zikuwoneka kuti simunayembekezere kuti ndichitedi zimenezo. Ndipotu, ndikanena kuti ndimakonzera bambo anga chakudya, sindikutanthauza kuti ndikuphika chakudya chokwanira; ndimangogwiritsa ntchito mbale zina zomwe ndili nazo kunyumba ndikupanga dzira lokazinga kuti ndiwapatse. Kotero, ndinali ndi nkhawa mwachinsinsi kuti abambo anga angakhumudwe, koma mosiyana ndi nkhawa zanga, anasangalala kwambiri ndi chakudyacho ndipo anandiuza kuti, "Zikomo mwana wanga." Ndinauzanso abambo anga kuti, “Pitirizani ntchito yabwino lero, mutha kuigwira, Abambo.” Ndinayankha zimenezo ndipo ndinawatsanzika pakhomo, ndikuwafunira tsiku labwino kuntchito. Ndipo tsiku lotsatira, ndinakonza chakudya chokhala ndi menyu yofanana, koma ndi kalata yoti "Zabwino zonse." Kotero Abambo anamwetulira nandiuza kuti zikomo ndipo ndagwira ntchito molimbika, ndipo anandiuza kuti ndipite mwachangu ndi kugonanso. Kwenikweni, sizinali zophweka chifukwa ndinali wotopa mwakuthupi, koma popeza abambo anga ankakonda kwambiri ntchitoyi, ndinamva bwino pamene ndinkagwira ntchitoyo. Pamene ndinkachita zimenezi, ndinazindikiranso momwe abambo ndi amayi anga akuvutikira. Kuyambira bambo anga, omwe amanyamula thupi lawo lodwala kupita kuntchito kuyambira m'mawa kuti akadyetse ana awo, mpaka amayi anga, omwe amasamalira aliyense m'banja, ndazindikira panthawiyi momwe makolo anga amandikondera komanso kudzipereka chifukwa cha ine. Ndinasangalala kulankhula chilankhulo cha chikondi cha mayi pamodzi ndi ntchito ya chakudya cham'mawa mkati mwa masiku ochepa chabe.

Fotokozani cholinga cha Chilankhulo cha Chikondi cha Amayi, chomwe chimafuna mtendere, ku masitolo oyandikana nawo Pamene ndinapereka lingaliro lakuti tiyesere limodzi, anati ndi kampeni yabwino kwambiri ndipo analonjeza kuti adzaigwiritsa ntchito.

Kudzera mu kuchita mawu achikondi a Amayi, kuseka ndi chikondi zakhala zikusefukira.

Pamene nyengo ikutentha masiku ano, fungo loipa la ndowe za agalu ndi amphaka m'khola lomwe lili patsogolo pa nyumba yanga likuipiraipira, ndipo Zinalinso zovuta kupewa pamene kunali mdima. Kenako, mwana wamwamunayo anati akufuna kuchita chinthu chabwino ndipo anatuluka panja pa tsiku lake lopuma. Ndinatenga fosholo lalikulu ndi tsache ndipo ndinayamba kutsuka ndowe. Mwana wanga wamwamuna, amene anali atayeretsa kwa masiku atatu, anabwera atanyamula mtolo wa zokhwasula-khwasula. "Mwachipeza kuti?" Wogwira ntchito yomanga nyumba yapafupi anandipatsa zakudya zokhwasula-khwasula, nati ndikuchita ntchito yabwino kwambiri ndipo anafunsa kuti ndingakhale bwanji wolemekezeka chonchi. Pamene kudzikonda kukukula ndipo nthawi yochepa ikutha posamalira kapena kuyeretsa deralo, ngakhale kuchita pang'ono kumawoneka ngati kokhudza mtima kwambiri. Anati zikomo chifukwa choyeretsa, kotero mwana wanga nayenso anawathokoza ndipo anati asangalala ndi zokhwasula-khwasula. Zikuoneka kuti chilankhulo cha chikondi cha mayi chimalowa mwachikondi komanso mokwanira kudzera mu ntchito zabwino. Mawa, ndiyenera kupatsa munthuyo chakumwa kuti ndimuthokoze chifukwa chondipatsa zokhwasula-khwasula. Ndipitiriza kuyamikira ndikuyesetsa kukhala mnansi wabwino. ~^^