Kwa nthawi yayitali sindinali kulankhulana bwino ndi banja langa, ndimangolankhulana pokhapokha ngati zinthu zachitika monga zochitika za m'banja. Nthawi zina ndikamva anzanga akulankhulana ndi mabanja awo, ndimawachitira nsanje.
Kotero ndinakumbutsidwa ndi "Mawu a Chikondi cha Amayi" Ndinaganiza za banja langa, ndingagawane bwanji Chikondi cha Amayi?
Zinanditengera nthawi kuganizira zomwe ndingagawire banja langa. Choncho ndinatsitsa khadi yam'manja ndikugawana ndi abambo anga, amayi anga, ndi abale anga awiri.
Ndimawatumizira uthenga wonena kuti "Ndimakukondani, zikomo ndipo ndikupepesa"
Kudzera mu tsiku la chikondi ndi mtendere wa amayi, ndimagawana ndi banja langa lokondedwa mawu achikondi ngakhale kuti ndikusowa, onse amalandira mawu a chikondi cha amayi.
Ndikufuna kuyamika Atate ndi Amayi kwamuyaya chifukwa chondilola kugawana chikondi cha Amayi ndi banja langa.