Patha mwezi umodzi kuchokera pamene mwana wanga wamkulu anayamba kugwira ntchito.
Ndimakumbukirabe bwino momwe ndinalili ndi mantha komanso nkhawa tsiku langa loyamba kuntchito.
Ndinkada nkhawa kwambiri ngati ndingathe kupirira, koma ndinayamikira kwambiri mwana wanga wamkazi chifukwa chopirira kwa mwezi umodzi.
Mwamwayi, manejala amene anandifunsa mafunso komanso amene anali mwini wa kampaniyo
Anthu onse amene ndimagwira nawo ntchito ndi okoma mtima komanso abwino.
Ndikuganiza kuti mwana wanga wamkazi anatha kuzolowera bwino moyo wa kampani.
Iye akunena kuti amasamalira antchito ake bwino kwambiri moti nthawi zonse amamaliza tsiku lake akulankhula za iwo akamaliza ntchito.
Tsiku lina, mwana wanga wamkazi anafunsa manejala mosamala kuti, "N’chifukwa chiyani munandisankha ine pakati pa anthu ambiri ofunsira ntchito?"
Woyang'anira anati pali anthu ofunsira ntchito omwe ali ndi luso komanso omwe ali ndi maphunziro abwino.
Iye anati panali zochitika zambiri pomwe zolankhula zake ndi zochita zake sizinali zofunikira pankhani ya khalidwe.
Kumbali ina, mwana wanga wamkazi anali waulemu kuyambira pachiyambi mpaka kumapeto,
Ndinachita chidwi ndi momwe anagwiritsira ntchito mawu oti "zikomo" ndi "zikomo" mwachibadwa.
Iye anati anasankha chifukwa ankaganiza kuti zingakhale bwino kugwira ntchito limodzi.
Nditamva nkhaniyi, ndinadabwa komanso ndinayamikira kwambiri.
Nthawi zonse ndimakhala ndi chizolowezi choti mwana wanga wamkazi azinena zinthu monga, "Amayi, zikomo pophika chakudya chokoma kwambiri" kapena "Zikomo pondigulira china chake," ngakhale pazinthu zazing'ono.
Ndinanena zimenezi mobwerezabwereza moti ndinamaliza ndikunena kuti, "Zikomo, mutha kusiya."
Ndikuyamikira kwambiri kuti mawu amenewo anabweretsa zotsatira zabwino kwambiri.
Ndamva kawirikawiri kuti khalidwe ndi lofunika kwambiri kuposa luso kapena zofunikira,
Kudzera mu ntchitoyi, ndaphunzira mawu ndi malingaliro omwe ndimagwiritsa ntchito pa moyo wanga watsiku ndi tsiku.
Ndinamvanso kufunika kokhazikitsa chidaliro pakati pa anthu.
Tiyenera kuchita khama kugwiritsa ntchito chilankhulo cha chikondi cha amayi cholemekeza ndi kuyamikira ena m'miyoyo yathu ya tsiku ndi tsiku.