One day, my son confessed to me about his cold personality, and that when others shared his concerns, he felt more like teaching them rather than empathizing with them.
I sympathized with my son, saying, “It can be,” and commended him for what he wanted to correct.
While we were pondering how to put it into practice, we came up with a card called “The Language of Mother’s Love.”
So, I suggested to my son, "Should we practice the words of a mother’s love at home, while also sharing it with our sons to those around us?"
My son took it positively, saying, “I like this approach.”
A few days later, my son texted me and my husband, saying, “Have a nice day.”
I also replied, “So does my son! It’s so good, so it’s going to be a fun day!”
In the past, it might have been difficult to have a conversation with my son, because when he heard his worries, he would evaluate and make judgments.
However, speaking the language of Mother’s love, it truly brought peace and led to the sharing of love.
So that his warm transformation will not stop, I will continue to teach the language of love at home first.