When I got home on Saturday evening, I found that Kimchi cabbage had arrived.
It was late on Sunday with an event, but I felt like I needed to make kimchijang.
My husband was already trimming the zanpa.
Feeling sorry, I quickly took off my clothes and started making kimchi right away, but my husband said in a very tired voice.
I asked myself, “Do I need to do this now?” and “I was tired today and wanted to rest.”
For a moment, I was so tired that words like, 'This is my work, why do I get so annoyed when just one word, such as hard work, made me so nervous, but I swallowed it inwardly and firmly shut my mouth.
At that time, I suddenly remembered the Mother’s Languages of Love Campaign.
So I said to my husband, “I’m sorry. It was really hard.”
There was a moment’s silence, and the husband quietly helped even clean up the Kimchi.
Before going to bed, he would greet me by saying, “You’ve worked hard today. Get a good rest.”
The words of Mother’s love saved us from an unnecessary argument.
It was a day when I realized that practicing the words of Mother’s love actually brings joy and happiness to me.