Menopause came suddenly.
My body sent the signals first, and my mind followed suit.
He becomes easily upset over small matters and speaks harshly.
The arrows aimed primarily at her husband.
One day, there was a laundry problem.
“How many times did I tell you not to turn the laundry? Do you know how annoying it is to open the laundry every time?”
My husband apologized, saying he was sorry, but I was still irritated.
A few days later, she noticed stains on her husband’s shirt, and again began nagging him in anger.
“Why do you keep getting something on your shirt? Last time, we spilled coffee on it, so we threw it away.”
I felt a mixture of irritation and annoyance, and my dissatisfaction exploded.
“Or do you have to do it yourself? I think housework is easy because I handle everything for you.”
My husband has a calm and kind personality, but he had been embarrassed and hurt by my harsh words and nagging. 
Seeing that made me feel sorry for him.
'Why am I doing this? Can I be so shaken by menopause?'
Then, something suddenly came to mind.
It was the “language of a mother’s love.”
Let’s use the “language of a mother’s love” as our own language!
Speak in a warm and gentle manner.
Instead, let’s use gentleness instead of irritation and smiles instead of nervousness.
So I decided to refine my mind little by little.
Of course, it is not easy.
Sometimes, when an irritating moment arises, he will slightly move to a different room.
She is managing her mind and combating menopause using the words of Mother’s love.
To all who are going through menopause, cheering!!