Kaisa kok ani bwsajwk Charlotte belai khe hamjakmani abo wngkha salsa. Chwng tongmani jagao, kaisa kuchuk hathái tongo, abo horizon no naiwi tongo, tei aro sal thángmarok belai kheno khá torjak. Almost jora jora khe, bo ano bini thani sal thwngmani photo nainani bagwi sakha. Salo khoroksa, ang rush wngwi tongmani, busy wngwi tongmani, stress wngwi tongmani, ani sakao kaisa kotor samungrokni list wngwi tongmani—tei kaisa jora, bo ano ringwi hai hwnwi ringkha, “Mama, nwng ani thani sal thángmani photo nawi mano de?”
A jorao ani bwsakni mungsa swk pause wngkha. Ang no hwnwi sawi mano, ani plan bai tongwi mano. Tamo khe aboni swkang, ang tháng kha. Ang chuknohani bwkhak wngwi bini thani simi sal thángma no capture khlai kha. Ang bono a picture phunuk phuru, bini mwkhang belai kheno lachima bai torwi phaikha, tei aboni ulo’-no, ang saimankha: bono chongwi, aswk kotor samung-o phano, ang hamjakmani bwthairokno rwwi tongo. A jorao sal thwngmani kok simi ya—abo kaisa kwrwngwi tongmani kok.
Charlotte wngkha 13 bisi wngnai.Bisi nwima swkang, ang bini bisingo swlaijakma nuknani chengkha—bini bwkha thwiwi thangkha, bini phola belai kheno thwiwi thangkha, bini chongmungrok rebellion wngwi thangkha abo ani buma wngwi thwiwi thangkha. Ang bini bisingo torwi mannai hwnwi khatungmani values ni yakni bo kiphilwi phaima no ang chubachu kwrwi khe naiwi tongkha. Bono lama phurwna bagwi joto try khlaimani gap no kotor khlaiwi tongma hai wngkha, tei ang cross khlaiwi manliya chasm ni uklogo bachajak hai khe wngkha.
Tamokhe o tongmungni bisingtwi ang kaisa profound kokno saimanna chengkha: bo simi se swlaijakna nangya—ang se. Ang nukkha, ang bini bwkhao sókna muchung khe, ang bini wngwi tongmani wngwi tongmani no control bai, eba bini wngwi tongmani wngwi tongmani wngwi tongmani wngwi tongmani wngwi tongmani. Ang ani uanamasingcha samungno khibiui, ani pholano kwchang rwna nangkha, tei bini thani khá khárwi malainani nang kha. Ang khnana bagwi, bono khakchangma bai hambai rwna bagwi, ang khá khamjak eba reject wngma jorao phano smile khlaina bagwi swrwngna nang kha. Ang hamjakma wngna nangkha.
Kaham khe, ang kha khlaimani glimmers nuknani chengkha. Tabuk jorao phano, bo ano Bible ni kokno kaisa khe sana bagwi rwkha—o jora kisa, phiya ani thani khe, abo kaisa uanamasingcha samung. Ani bwsajwk bai Buma ni hamjakmani kokrokno practice khlaimani abo kaisa rwngthoma—ang abono lachimasingcha khe naiya.
Ang o situationni bagwi belai hambai rwkha, bini hamya jorao phano. Abo ano Bible o bini bwsla Absalomni bagwi Daudni bwkhao khá khammani kokno muitu khlai-o—Absalom wngwi tong phano Daud bini bwslano bahai khe hamjak kha, jotono wngwi tong phano bo bini bwslani bagwi bahai khe kap kha. Daud hai hwnwi chirikhógwi hai hwnwi sa kha, “O ani sajla Absalom, ani sajla Absalom, nini sak slái-o ang thwi kha mun!” (2 Samuel 18:33). Ang tabuk nukkha, omo wngkha Buma ni sakni bwkhani glimpse—bohrokni kwmajak, rebellion bwsarokni bagwi belai kheno khá khamjak, phiyabo bórokno khá khamjak hamjakma bai rwktharwi tongwi tongo.
O tongmung ano shape khlaiwi tongo. Abo ano phwrwngmani wngkha, thwiwi thangya hamjakma, patience bai naisingwi tongnai hamjakma, tabukbo nukjakya manwirokno khatungwi tongnai. Lam hamya wngwi tongphano, ang poito khlaio aboni bisingtwi beauty torwi phaiwi tongo. Ang Charlotte no ang tongmani bebak bai hamjaknai, o ‘Mama ni Hamjakma Kok’ no practice khlaimani bisingtwi bo Nogo kiphilwi phaina bagwi lama phiyogwi mannai hwnwi poito khlaiwi. Tei aboni bisingtwi angbo swlaijak tongkha, Hamjakma ni bwkhao kwrak khe thwngwi tongkha.
Charlotte ni sal thángma hai kheno—kwchangma, kwchak kuphur, tei chirikhogwi uanamasingcha khe kupulung—o jorarok ano muitu khlaio, pohor thángma hai wngwi tong phano, abo kubui khe tháng ya. Simply khe teibo bachana bagwi tiyar wngwi tongo. Salo salsa, sal wngwi phaima bai tei sal kwtal chengma bai, ang muitu khlaio, ani thani tei kaisa chance tongo Buma ni bwkha no phunukna bagwi—Bini kok, Bini patience, tei Bini hamjakmani samungrokno samung khlainani bagwi. Bini kokrok ano muitu khlaio, hamjakma passive wngya—abo active, tongwi tongnai, tei khatungma bai kupulung.