Chwrai wngwi ani khoroknwi bwsajwkno bini rangchak tei kwthang tongmungni bagwi jotono hamjakgo. Tamokhe, bo 5th eba 6th grade o tongmani jorao puberty chengma bai, bo teibo sakni thani wngwi thangkha tei bini bwkhani swlaimungrok teibo wngwi thangkha. Bo bini buma ni kokno nagging hwnwi simi se uansukkha, tei middle school o happhuru bo jotono twiwi wngwi tongmani wngwi tongmani tei wngwi tongmani kokno phunukna chengkha.
Chwrai no naiwi ang bo bai kok salainani tei kwbangma lama bai gosinani chaitok kha, phiya abo jorani bagwi simi se wngkha. Jephuru phano bini thani complaint tongkhe, bo bini emotion no tei uáisa vent khlaiwi rwnai, tei ani sakni khá khármani tei khá khármani abo teibo kotor wngwi thango.
Hakhe, churcho-o Parents’ Day ni salo , ang message ni bisingtwi puila sakno uansukna bagwi phaikha. Phiyaba, ang saimankha ani bwkha ani puila bwsani bagwi belai kheno rwjak, bini thani buma wngwi jotono kwtal, tei abo hai kheno ang bini diligent kotor bukhuk bai swngjakmani situationrokbo tongo. Angbo saimankha ani second bwsani bagwi ani jora jora khe uanama tei uanamani abo bono hamya khlaiwi mano hwnwi.
Aboni ulo ang buma hamjakmani kokno samung khlainani bagwi uansuk kha. Ang ani second bwsa no nuk phuru ang khlaimani nagging no kwma rwkha tei bwsa ni khá no uansukwi kók sana cheng kha.
Ang skulni nogo phai khe, bo hai hwnwi sa-o, “Nwng tini belai samung khlai kha,” tei ang chaya khlai khe, bo hai hwnwi sa-o, “Mama khá khamjak.” Chwrai belai kheno khá khamjak hai khe nukjak khe, bo “Ang nini kók khnana muchungo” hwnwi uansukma bai khe kaham khe khna kha.
Tamokhe, uanamasingcha swlaimung wngkha. Chwrai, bohrok swkang swkang khe bohrokni room o thwngwi, dugar phiyogwi, tei schoolni kiphilwi phaiphuru phatar ongwi thangna muchungya, swkang bini thani phaiwi schoolo wngmani kokno sajaknani chengkha. Swngcharni borokrok bai simi kok salaiwi tongnai chwrai, bohrokni buma baibo bwkha phuarwi rwnani chengkha.
Teibo uanamasingcha wngmani khe, khulummungni kokno twiwi uansukmung. Tution no excuse wngwi khulummung skip khlaiwi tongnai chwrai, bo puila sakha, bohrok tution ni break naina bagwi thwngnai hwnwi. Sal chisni swkang simi practice khlaimani ulo chwraini bagwi swlaijakma nukwi, ang belai kheno saimankha, buma ni hamjakmani kokthai wngkha borokni bwkha phuarnai phan gwnang chabi.
O experience ni bisingtwi ang nogo, kamiyungni bisingo, eba dophani je jagao phano buma hamjakmani kokno practice khlaina bagwi kwtal khe swmai tangkha. Obo hai wngkha tamni hwnba ang saimankha, khoroksani bwkhano phuarwi, bini thani khakchangma bai malainani bagwi kaham khe lama wngkha hamjakma bai supungjak kok bai.
Bwskango thangwi, swkangni wngwi sajakmani kok bai samung bai swkang thangwi, ang buma ni hamjakmani kokno practice khlaiwi teibo kwthang tongmungni lamao swkang thangna muchungo.